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Your Worry Generator
Most of the time our worries are unproductive. We worry about possible bad scenario’s that eventually might happen, when in reality that scenario isn’t even real. Worrying is a defense we automatically use to feel we are in control, but if it interferes with the way you wish to live your life, it’s highly unproductive. Moreover, it can affect your wellbeing and health. More >>
Hiding From You
Some people sparkle. It seems as if they live an extraordinary life because in their eyes, gestures and smile their Ultimate Self radiates. My mentor once called these people a red spot. These “red spots” are noticed. When they step into a room, they not only step into the room, their presence is felt. More >>
Conditional Unconditional Love
Correct me if I am wrong, but we all want to be loved unconditionally. According
to Maslow, our primary needs in life are food, shelter and safety and I agree, but
how about adding unconditional love to that list? Isn’t it the best thing in the
world to be accepted for whom you are, even when that special person in your life
finds out all of our not-
The Ultimate Happiness
Joseph Campbell called it “Follow your bliss", I call it The Ultimate Self and in more popular terms it’s “Be You And Be Happy". Everyone wants it: Ultimate Happiness, but how to get and hold on to it.. Yes! That’s the question. More >>
We Are Vulnerable
Some time ago, I spoke with someone who got verbally attacked by a person and she
was truly upset by it all. I totally understood she was emotionally upset, most of
us would be, and again it hit me: most of us are so vulnerable! We can have thousands
of friends, but if someone says something nasty to us, even if we don't know that
person -
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