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Liliane Rausch

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Decisions - Don’t Limit Yourself

At some point of time, we all learn our decisions have consequences. Even if we don’t decide anything, life will take its course. The trouble with decisions, however, is the cluttering in our mind. If we think: “Should or should I not?”, hundreds of thoughts and feelings race through our minds, making it difficult to differentiate between our reason, common sense, intuition, doubts and even our conscience. Here are some rules to think about when you are facing a decision:

Focus on what you truly wish; always keep your dreams, goals, wishes in mind
Listen to your intuition: if it doesn’t feel good, like something is “off” don’t or wait!
Honor your values
When in doubt or not sure, give yourself more time
Make up your mind in your mind and take a day “pretending” you made a certain decision - how does that feel?
Do your homework: What are the reasons for your decision? What are your feelings about the decisions? What the advantages and disadvantages of your decision? What are the consequences? How will you deal with the consequences?
Focus on your goal, the “Why?” instead of limiting yourself to two options: Shall I or shall I not?
Write down what you feel and think, what’s on your mind and talk things through with people who support you, preferably people who were confronted with the same decision
Ask for help in case you know your decision but are afraid to act upon it-for whatever reason.

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